The Degeneration of Love: a Modern Concept
The love, maybe the biggest feel in the world, has slowing down during history. The first love, the cornerstone of human friendship - deep, enduring, patient - is nowadays other recognized and today fully changed. In the present world we are unable to influence the development of love, and some say and guess. We can not control it anymore.
The Digital Delusion
In the age of short grading got the love learned and especially intensive. Dating-Apps are looking on every partner and are leading to more photos and descriptions, short said, only on physical attraction. The Switch culture has changed our love letter mind into a luck game, instead of deep relationships, in that emotions get to entertainment activities.
Social-Media-Platforms are developing it self fully further and let to a reality which steadily is bringing new moments. Relationships got a game instead into a real life. Over that booth partner are tended that to break down and to support every moment there meaning bringing it to the meaning documented for the public. This is getting to a party, and the authenticity gets to a relationship, that ends break down under the burden of digital wares.
The down lining of doubled understand and consent. The traditional World of consents - Mariage, long relationships, same aims - is seen with sceptic. The own passion is changing it self to a paradox, in which endless possibilities are tending for a down going satisfaction. Why choose only one partner, while the other is only a swipe further? This loss of peace gets higher through the phobia of romantic dates. The art of knowing really the other person - his mistakes, his problems and complexities - needs time and patience, that our present society is not giving. In our present culture we get to super lovers instead real families and friends.
The Binding of Romance
Love is gotten to a product that gets sold. Valentines Day, Friendship rings, romantic vacations - the romantic got lesser and lesser through the money or advertisement. The pressure on love to have alcohol consume and to give that, let to the full break down of silence and no deep loved senses.
The Loss of Complete Clarity
Modern relationships are going mostly with the loss of acceptation of each other, that real love needs. We are very trained on, letting our freedom protected and safe, that we today are not knowing how to care about another person. The fear to get hurt, has every where made emotions and barrierrrs, that block us from, creating the deep intimacy, the love needs.
Social medias drift us in the vision, only show our own side, what makes us authentic, and hides our own not perfectness. We think then this is a danger and not like our own person. We have forgotten how to get satisfied with the talent and knowledge of the other person.
The Accelerating Problem of it all
In our present world the love should be the same speed like our technology and HTML-Websites. We wont a good chemistry, safe compatibility and fast time saving, until we can love us. The slow burnout until we feel or develop love, the big trust and patience, do treat us right and to strengthen our understanding, are mostly things of the last 30 years.
This speed gives no room for our nature and the speed to have human emotions. Relationships got driven to have reached a constant strength and to not have any fun, what is seen for further loss, but also as natural rhythm in our human connections.
The Way to the Front
About that all further, it is the importance to get their own love still and also his own safety. The generation that we are self seeing is not hurting but shouts for attention. We should decide us fully and whole to distance this fully and to make counter activity about it. Against all humans that are blocking us from seeing the love as our basics and components.
The full loss of love in our present world and the language is no diagnostic criteria, instead a warning signal. If we look there nearer we can choose what we want. We can remember that love is more than a practical or behavior, more than a product, more than a decision as it is a understand and more than deep connection, everywhere and everywhere in our digital age.
The DeGeneration of Love in our world and language today is not a major diagnostic but a warning sign. If we look closely at this, we can choose what we want instead. We can think back to love as more than a practice or behaviour than a product itself, an agreement more than an understanding, and a deep interconnectedness, everywhere, going in our digital age.
Lastly is the love in its degenerated function not written in stone, but instead makes fully universal wishes. The question persists: What king of love are we in our time building, when every we want so?